Writings & Musings
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Insight and inspiration on living unhurried lives, overcoming feminine burnout, reclaiming our radiance and self-sovereignty and embracing our brilliance.
How to Embody the Life and Future We Desire to Create
We are always embodying something.
It might be the forward urgency of our hectic schedule, the relaxed openness in our heart in moments of joy, or the way our body’s shoulders tighten when we feel stressed.
So much of what we embody isn’t chosen consciously.
It’s shaped by our history, our family, and the culture we live in.
Often, the patterns we have practised are what allowed us to get through, to cope, to keep going in challenging moments. They are deeply intelligent responses that have helped us to navigate life. Responses that we have unconsciously honed and perfected through repetition.
Understanding the Mind–Body Connection and How to Shift Old Patterns by Working Somatically
So many of the patterns we live with, like the endless late-night thinking loops, the automatic “yes” when we mean “no,” the crushing feeling of self-doubt, are often considered to be mindset problems.
But if you have ever tried to think your way out of them, you will know that reframing our thoughts can offer relief, but doesn’t address what might lie beneath and causes these thoughts to arise.
That’s because these patterns don’t begin in the mind.
They begin in the body.
Before these patterns became habits, they started as survival strategies. Unconscious, protective responses to moments when something in our world felt too overwhelming for our system to cope with: too much, too fast, too soon - or conversely, not enough.
The Missing Piece in Transformation: Why Awareness Alone Doesn’t Always Create Change
Maybe, like me, you have an insatiable curiosity for understanding why you are the way you are. You read all the books and articles you can put your hands on, listen to the podcasts, watch the videos … to more deeply know yourself.
And what an incredible and profound journey this can be! Truly life changing.
We gain so much awareness around our ways of being, behaviours, thoughts, beliefs, and the long-held patterns that we might want to shift.
We journal, reflect, share it with others where it feels right to do so.
We reframe our thoughts, clean up our mindset.
And yet, the patterns remain.
We know. And yet change isn’t happening.
The Somatic Path to Women's Empowerment: How to Cultivate the Inner Conditions for Growth
As women, we are told to own our worth, to take up space and believe in ourselves, as if empowerment was just a mindset shift away.
A simple choice we haven’t made yet.
For many of us, rather than feeling liberating, this can actually feel like more pressure and keep us stuck.
Even if we long to feel daring and empowered, something within us still hesitates, contracts, or resists in moments where we are invited to step up or forward.
However bright, intelligent and capable we are, deep within our system, something might not yet feel safe enough for us to expand into a fuller expression of who we are.
This is where traditional empowerment models can fall short.
We can’t be pushed into self-trust if our body fears stepping forward.
We can’t convince ourselves to take up space if a part of us believes that being visible is threatening or risky.
We can’t override the very patterns that have protected us from what feels like harm, without first befriending them and becoming curious about the intelligence they hold.
Empowerment rarely happens through force.
